The very young man, with his shoulders back and his chest sticking out front, walks down the long airport concourse. Dressed in his military drab green uniform with his starched shirt and tie is looking for his departure gate. He never liked being late and always wanted to know ahead of time where he needed to be and when. He was way ahead of time for his departure flight that would take him home. So after finding his departure gate he began looking for what he really needed, a bar where he could have a very quite drink or a few and reflect on his past year or so of his life. He knew he was not of age to drink but was willing to gamble that it might not make any difference, with his uniform, to the server. He sits on the high stool and waits to be acknowledged. It doesn’t take long before the waiter comes to him and ask, “May I help you Sir ?” In his kindest voice he says, “Can I have a beer please?” “What kind of beer and do you have an ID, Please?” Miller Lite please and I do have an ID but to be honest, I’m not 21.” So the waiter ask him if he is just getting back from Vietnam because he notices the campaign ribbons on his uniform? Yes I was there for 10 months was the young mans response. The waiter smiles, says he will get his beer, just don’t cause him any trouble and forget about the ID.
Before his beer gets to him he feels a tap on his shoulder and he slowly turns to face a middle aged woman with a scorn on her face. “Did I hear you say you are just coming back from Vietnam, she asks?” Yes ma'm, that’s right he responds. She then spits in his face and slaps him across his cheek as hard as she can. The young man turns back towards the bar and takes a long drink of his beer. Another tap hits his shoulder and again he turns toward the woman. “Don’t you dare turn your back to me. How dare you, you child murderer.” She says. And again spits into his face. And as her hand goes up to again make contact with his face, he sees , at the corner of his eye, a black hand grab her wrist, and he hears these words so plainly, “You insult this fine young man once more and I will personally punch you out.” The man holding her wrist looks very stern and willing to deliver what he has promised. And also says, “I have a lot of money and quite a few lawyers to fight you on this matter.” The woman pulls her arm away from the mans grip and storms out cussing under her breath.
May I buy you a drink the black man says? No thank you I’m fine, says the young soldier. But I insist says the man, as he calls the waiter over, he says “Give this gentleman what ever he wishes for as long as he wishes,” and he puts $300,00 on the bar. “Sir this is not necessary, I appreciate it very much and thank you but I can get it from here.” “Thank me, THANK ME,” he said, “but no sir, thank you, thank you for all that you have done for me.” And he turns and walks out of the bar.
T hat man was none other then Sammy Davis Jr. And that solider was none other then ME.
True Story by Me,
Peter
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Okay brother,
ReplyDeleteare you telling me that you actually met ol' S. Davis,?
Is this true?
I have never heard this before in my whole 45 years of existance,
and if it is your true story I am pissed...
not that I haven't ever heard it before but I want to kick the living
you know what out of that woman....
lu lil
OK, OK, WHAT A STORY!! DID THIS REALLY HAPPEN AND DID YOU TELL ME THIS STORY WHEN YOU CAME HOME? YOU ARE JARRING MY MEMORY AGAIN BECAUSE IT SEEMS LIKE I KNEW ABOUT THIS OR A STORY SOMETHING LIKE THIS. PLEASE LET ME KNOW BECAUSE I KNEW THE ENDING OF YOUR STORY BEFORE I READ IT. DID YOU TELL ME ABOUT THIS? DO YOU RMEMEBER?
ReplyDeleteI'M LIKE LIL, THAT WOMAN WOULD NOT HAVE GOTTEN OFF THE FLOOR IF I WOULD HAVE BEEN THERE. IT WAS A "WAR" YOU WERE SUPPOSE TO PROTECT YOURSELF, YOUR FELLOW TROOPERS, AND MOST OF ALL, THE REASON WE WERE OVER THERE, THE USA!!! VIETNAM VETERANS NEVER GOT THE RESPECT THEY DESERVED. YOU CAME HOME FROM A TOUR OF DUTY IN VIETNAM A MINOR AND A YOUNG, HANDSOME, YOUNG MAN ONLY TO TRY YOUR BEST TO GET OVER THIS TOUR. YOU KNOW, PETE, I NEVER TOLD YOU THIS BUT WHEN YOU GOT BACK AND YOU AND DONNA TERREBONNE WENT ON A FEW DATES (DONNA WAS ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS) SHE CAME TO MY HOUSE BECAUSE SHE WAS WORRIED ABOUT YOU. SHE TOLD ME A FEW THINGS THAT I WILL NOT GET INTO NOW BUT I PROMMISED HER THAT I WOULD DO EVERYTHING I COULD TO HELP YOU. THEN AT SOME POINT IN TIME, EITHER I MOVED TO HOUMA OR YOU MOVED, WE DRIFTED APART. I SAY AGAIN TODAY THAT I THANK GOD EVERYDAY THAT CHERYL CAME INTO YOUR LIFE AND THEN YOUR TWO BEAUTIFUL GIRLS. I TRULY BELIEVE WITHOUT THOSE THREE YOU LIFE WOULD HAVE BEEN TRULY DIFFERENT AND NOT FOR THE BETTER. I JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW, BRO, THAT I AM PROUD OF YOU, I ALWAYS WAS PROUD TO SAY THAT MY BROTHER WAS A MARINE WHO SERVED IN VIETNAM. WE SHARED SOME GOOD TIMES AND BAD TIMES BUT I ALWAYS LOVED YOU AND ALWAYS WILL!
PROUD TO BE A SISTER OF A UNITED STATES MARINE!
GOD BLESS THE USA!
L U
RONNIE
I FOUND YOU!! I FOUND YOU!!! I FOUND YOU!!!! DOIN THE I FOUND YOU DANCE!!!! WHOO HOOOO!!!! WHAT AN AWESOME STORY!!!
ReplyDeleteI TOO AM PROUD OF YOU PERRIN!!!! AND THAT WOMAN WOULD HAVE BEEN EITHER REALLY REALLY INJURED OR DEAD IF I'D GOT AHOLD OF HER.....THEN AGAIN WE'RE ALL ENTITLED TO OUR OWN OPINIONS..HUH...JUST MAKE SURE THEY AGREE WITH MINE!! HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
I LOVE YOU PERRIN,
SEMPER-FI
TIFF
Uncle Peter,
ReplyDeleteThat is a great story. I admire Sammy Davis, Jr. but even more - I admire YOU!!!!!! You are a hero. You risked your life for all of us. I admire your courage, strength, and endurance. You gave it all for us. That woman deserved to be knocked out and I admire you for not hitting her. I would have. You gave up so much that I can't imagine. Thank you for our freedom! Love you!
Love,
Lisa
First of all let me start by thanking all of you for such loving comments. It does my heart and soul good to hear these type of supporting words and thoughts.
ReplyDeleteAs you all know, I don’t speak about my experiences in Nam, or I haven’t in the past anyway. There are some things I will be sharing with you, if ya’ll would like to hear them, but there are also other things that I will never share.
For example the above story doesn’t bother me. In fact some times I find it comical. The only sad part about this story is that with all the fighting I did in Nam for everyone else’s rights, when I got back, I didn’t have the spirit to fight for my own. It took an angry, concern stranger to stand up for me or the woman could have gone on forever and I would have just sat there drinking my beer. Not to be bragging but I could have very easily killed the woman with one blow in the right place. I was highly trained in hand to hand combat some of which I still practice today. And that’s where some of my problems came in to play. I could not afford to retaliate for fear of really hurting or possibly accidentally killing someone. It was a serious problem, so much so that when we got back the military gave us special classes to help us deal with the general public and the people who were against the war in Vietnam. I handled it and dealt with it by becoming completely placid of the whole situation, as they suggested. In my mind it was either that or eventually spend the rest of my life in jail for murder. There was no in between. I still feel that way today.
I always felt, and I mean ALWAYS felt, that all of my family and good friends supported me when I returned and still do today. That was never a concern. I knew that every one had my best interest at heart. And I truly, truly appreciate all of it and I’m sorry for having to put any of you through any hardships because of it. (Now again I know this sentence should not end with the word “it,” but there it is.LOL,LOL) So now I need to shut up because I’m rattling on and on. So back to the blog.
Lilly, yes the story is true. I don’t know if you would consider me actually meeting S.Davis. It was more of just an encounter. He defended me and bought me a S _ _ T load of beer. Then he was gone. He never knew my name. All total it lasted maybe five minutes. But now with the above story you know why I acted the way I did. And the only reason I can think of why you and possibly Celena never heard this story is because ya’ll were both still pretty young when I returned.
Ronnie, yes I believe you heard this story. There’s no reason why you wouldn’t have. I’m pretty sure I told this story to Momma, Daddy, you, Simone, Joe and I think also Rosie. Rosie and I became quite close when I got back. And I’m sure I told it to Larry at a later time when he and I was shrimping together out of Brownsville. So you were probably having a De Ja Voue. (No spell check for French, LOL,LOL.) But I’m almost certain you heard this story before at one time or another.
Ronnie it’s funny you should mention Donna at this time. (Now I’m feeling I’m having a Da Je Voue, Ha, Ha, LOL, LOL.) Because I was just thinking of her just the other day and was going to ask you about her. But first let me say this, I always believed that Bobby would be my closest friend in the Terrebonne Family. This was true when we were younger but as we got into our teen years its Donna who became my very good friend. And the older we got the closer her and I became. Donna and I got really close to each other or I would like to think it was equal on both sides. I’m not really sure how she felt about it. (There’s that D _ _ _ T “it” again. LOL.) Ronnie, please, I hope between the two of us one of use or both of us will remember to have a talk about Donna the next time we meet. In the mean time, do you know how to get in touch with her ?? If you do just say so but don’t put the information here or any where on the net without her permission. Just let me know yea or NEA. I’m pretty sure I know where she lives but don’t know her last name or I would try to get in touch with her myself. Just please let me know something.
ReplyDeleteIt is very unfortunately that we drifted apart. I really miss our times together. My time together with you rather it is good or bad, even the bad were pretty good. I really miss you Ronnie. And I mean that from the bottom of my heart. Most of it was my fault. I hope this blog gives you a slight understanding of why I did some of the things I did. It wasn’t only you. I separated myself from everyone and everything I loved the most. I had to find a way to survive in the new “me world” I had to live in. It was hard and still is to even think about some times.
You are also right about Cheryl and the two Girls we had between us. Cheryl WAS and STILL is my salvation. It by far was not an easy road for Cheryl. Like any other relationship or family, we had our good times and our bad times. But the good times, by a long shot, by far, out weighted the bad times. And our relationship today is better then it ever was. I love Cheryl, Aleena and Emily more then any thing else in my life. I couldn’t be prouder of Aleena and Emily for all they have accomplished and continue to do me proud. Cheryl is an angel sent to me from God to help save me. And if there is such a thing as Heaven, God and Angles, (which I’m sure there is.) then these three woman are definitely angels and are bound for Heaven. I here people all the time say how they want to have a son, a son, a son, to carry on the family name and such. But I’m here to tell you, I would not trade all the sons in the world for the daughters I have, never and I mean NEVER.
Tiffany, I didn’t know you couldn’t find me or I would have E-mailed you on how to. But I’m glad you did find me and I hope you and Tedi both will become followers of my blogs. I really enjoy hearing from both of you. Hay, Tedi, I never hear about a “boy friend” with you. Now don’t try to tell me there isn’t some young man out there that you are not teasing with all your beauty and personality. Come on now, you can tell your Great Uncle Peter / Great Parrin. I won’t tell anyone. Who is he and what his name is. I want to know and I won’t tell your Mom. I promise.
Lisa, thank you for all of your comments. Not only here but in all of my blogs. I do read them all even if I don’t always respond to all of them. Blogs tend to get long just like this one. Thank you for believing in me and for your loving support. But Lisa, I’m no hero. Far from it, I think any way. I’m just some poor schmuk, (spell check, LOL.) who got caught up in a situation who did what I had to do to survive. Which we are all still doing, trying to survive in a very difficult world. But again thank you very much for your loving support and I sure hope you continue to follow me and Lilly’s blogs.
ReplyDeleteP.S. Abby, how are you doing sense your surgery ?? Are you back up to 100% yet ?? I sure hope so. Let me know how you are doing and what are you going to do for the rest of the summer.
P.S.S. Guy, I sure hope you appreciate the family you have which I think you do. You seem to be a very good husband, (no matter what Lisa says about you, LOL,LOL.) and an excellent Father,(no matter what Abby says about you, Ha, Ha.) to Abby. Keep up the good work and try to keep in touch. I know you know how to type also. (Or can you ??) Later.
Thank All Of You Very Much,
L-U-A,
Peter
So, here I am, now. I actually haven't responded to this blog yet, because I've been trying to sort it out.
ReplyDeletePeter, if you remember a few blogs back, I told the story of when I was a little girl and Rosie and I were picking blackberries and the melancholy feeling that I had on that day and then the wonderful suprise I received when I walked into the kitchen and saw you sitting there.
Well, ever since I was that little, there was always something about you, like each of my other siblings, that always stood out for me. I could never pinpoint what it was or why, but I think that I've finally found the answer.
You remind me so much of Daddy...it was always, always important to me to make Daddy proud. No matter what I did, or didn't do, it seems as though he was always in my mind. Anytime something good or bad happened in my life, whether it was someone who was mean to me on the bus, or I had a really horrible date, or a really good date, Mom was going to kill me when she got home from work because I got smoking (again!!), I got a raise at work or a new job...whatever...he was always the one that I shared my feelings with and he always made me feel better (yes, Nena, even when he spanked my ass and made me go back and return the Kool Aid that I stole to Ledet's Supermarket). On the days that I didn't see him, I spoke to him on the phone...never missed a day with Daddy.
When I was little, I know how close you and Rosie had gotten to each other and I wanted that, too. Of course, I always wanted everything Rosie had because I admired her so much (she had the most awesome clothes and she always looked so beautiful). In my adult life, now, I think about all the confusion between Lil's illness, you going away to war and the Collins Family just being in turmoil. It is so overwhelming to me how any of us turned out as good as we have. When you did come home, I remember trying to be extra good and not get in trouble because, like Daddy, I wanted you to give me attention and be proud of me. Although you have always, always loved me, I just couldn't understand why you stopped communicating with me, now I realize it was with us, the family.
ReplyDeleteThrough these blogs, I am learning more about you and understanding you. I didn't know why you wanted to move away from us. One of the reasons that I decided to go to USL is because of you; I thought it would be a great way to get close to you. Of course, you and Cheryl had just gotten married and, once again, here I was, your little snot nosed sister just hanging around. Honestly, I freaking hated college and I hated being away from home, but I always, always appreciated the fact that both you and Cheryl took me in while I attempted to further my education (Pre-Med...how stupid was that!!!!).
If I could express to you how much it really meant to me when we would hang out at "Pete's" playing pool, backgammon and chess, it was truly one of the highlights of my life with you.
I was always so proud to introduce you as my borther, whether it was my new friends in Lafayette or my old friends in Golden Meadow. I used to love when my friends would comment on how handsome my brother was and, you know, typical little sister, I'd roll my eyes and say something like, "do you think so?", but in my heart, I knew so.
I'm sorry for not really understanding everything that you went through in Viet Nam and the misunderstanding of the people and the way you were treated. I have always been proud of you, your service and loyalty to us and our country.
ReplyDeleteI understand, through your last blog message, why it was necessary for you to pull away from us, but until now, I just didn't understand and just accepted, "that's just the way he is", and have always loved you that way.
I have loved being "one of the younger ones", but sometimes it also makes me sad that I didn't know Mom and Daddy as well as y'all and we didn't get to enjoy the fun things that y'all experienced with them "back in the day". The closest we ever came to a vacation was traveling to Brownsville to visit Larry and Loupita (I love Loupita!!).
Of course, I have great childhood memories, but many of them have always been of Daddy fishing and being sick and miserable (which he told me every day when I asked how his day was) and Mom always working and being frustrated.
I am learning so much and I appreciate you and Lilly for continuing these blogs. This has opened up so much between all of us, especially us siblings. For me, it's always so much easier to express my feelings in writing than in spoken words.
Peter, thanks for sharing your feelings and experiences, it means a lot to me!!!
One final thing, really, I promise...please notice that I used only 1 curse word throughout this whole blog...that's a record for me!!!
With all my love, Brother,
Your Sister,
C
WOW! i KNOW i've not heard this one! ditto to what everyone else has said. i'm proud of my poppa. you made me cry with all those nice words about your wife and girls :) what i want to know .......... is what did you do with all that money!!!!!!!
ReplyDeletelov a much, aleena brei
YEA, BROTHER, ANSWER YOU OLDEST CHILD! WHAT HAPPENED TO ALL THAT MONEY! IF I'M NOT MISTAKEN, AFTER "THE NUT" (AND I MEAN THIS IN A LOVING WAY) TOLD MR. DAVIS THAT HE WOULD BE OK I BELIEVE HE TOOK THE MONEY BACK? GOT YOU COVERED, BRO!!!
ReplyDeleteHEY ALEENA KEEP THE COMMENTS COMMING. I AM SO PROUD OF YOU AND EMILY AND WHAT YOU'LL BOTH BECOME. MIKE AND HIS FAMILY ARE STILL IN OUR PRAYS. HOW IS UNCLE DAVID'S FAMILY DOING! HOPE AS WELL AS CAN BE EXPECTED.
L Y'LL
oh, I know what he did with all that money!!!
ReplyDeleteHe sat at that bar and finished off that 300 dollars,
right bro? lol
Well Aleena you brought tears to my eyes also because of what you said about me, “I’m proud of my Poppa.” I have always been proud of you and Emily. Ya’ll are the apple of my eye and I love both of you very much. I want both of you to know you can always come to “DPOPPA” any time for any thing. Thanks a lot for following my blog. I really enjoy hearing from you on the computer. Even though Mom does keep me informed every day on your activities.
ReplyDeleteOK, about the money, ya’ll will probably not believe this but here goes. I drank a bunch and switched from cheep beer to high price booze. The $ 300.00 stayed in front of me on the bar the whole time. The bar tender took very good care of me. He keep my drinks coming before I had finished the one I was working on. He didn’t even allow any one to sit in the stools on either side of me. When I got ready to leave I asked him how much I owed him. He slid the money towards me and said, “Nothing, this one is on me.” I said, “No this one is on Old Sammy.” I slid the money back to him on the bar, got up and walked out. That’s probably harder to believe then the story itself. (Ha, Ha, LOL, LOL) But that’s the way it happened.
I went to my gate and found out that I missed my flight and the nest one was, (I forget exactly, but some where between 6 or 8 hours.) So I called Mom and Daddy and informed them that I would be late and what time they should pick me up at the airport in New Orleans. The time was very little difference because instead of flying to Atlanta and having a few hours lay over then to New Orleans I would fly straight into N.O. The difference was only about 20 minutes or so.
I stayed at my departure gate and went to sleep and I was woken up when it was time to board the plane. As ya’ll sometimes say I will say now, “that’s my story and I’m sticking to it.”
L-U-A,
Peter / Poppa